Wow - I have to say it always amazes me at how fired up people get responding to message boards. When I read the post, I didn't think that he was being overly rude or saying that people are required to offer everyone in his family seats, just that he was surprised that no one did. I could be misinterpreting, but here are my two cents.
We just returned from our first trip since 2004 this May, and overall, I thought that Disney was a much more difficult place to travel too than in the past. The common courtesies of the past seem to be much fewer and further between and everyone in our party was dissappointed because that really adds to the appeal of Disney and the best experience of that type of environment. We went with our 11 month old son (whether that was right or not, I know gets discussed to no end, but it was so that we were able to participate in a family reunion and I don't regret that decision!). I didn't expect preferential treatment because of having a child - there are tons of kids at Disney (as there should be!), but I was very disappointed at the overall mentality and attitude of the overwhelming majority of guests.
I notice a lot of posts describing difficulties that others may have, but I don't think for the most part, people question the difficulty of having any type of disability, visible or not, but it would also surprise me if every single person on a bus was in that situation. And as for all of the angry people saying to wait for a less crowded bus, we ended up in a situation where our resort was in the middle of the bus line, so that was impossible for a Magic Kingdom bus. Our worst bus experience of the trip (thankfully it only happened once) was when we got onto a bus, not knowing how full it was...before we could have had an opportunity to get off the bus speeds away from the bus stop. I have to say I was very surprised at how long it took for someone to offer their seat to my Mom who was holding my son. I'm not saying that it should be required, but I do think that the spirit of the action means much more than the actual seat. We had 7 adults in our party and often got up to offer our seats for everyone but the person holding my son. At the risk of sounding naive, I just think that it would be nice if people could be more supportive, which would probably lead to better understanding, than automatically responding with anger.
As for the parades, I'm thinking that I won't even try with those anymore, everything we tried still resulted in a frustrating experience - those are CRAZY crowded!! I think next time we'll try for early November ;-)
We just returned from our first trip since 2004 this May, and overall, I thought that Disney was a much more difficult place to travel too than in the past. The common courtesies of the past seem to be much fewer and further between and everyone in our party was dissappointed because that really adds to the appeal of Disney and the best experience of that type of environment. We went with our 11 month old son (whether that was right or not, I know gets discussed to no end, but it was so that we were able to participate in a family reunion and I don't regret that decision!). I didn't expect preferential treatment because of having a child - there are tons of kids at Disney (as there should be!), but I was very disappointed at the overall mentality and attitude of the overwhelming majority of guests.
I notice a lot of posts describing difficulties that others may have, but I don't think for the most part, people question the difficulty of having any type of disability, visible or not, but it would also surprise me if every single person on a bus was in that situation. And as for all of the angry people saying to wait for a less crowded bus, we ended up in a situation where our resort was in the middle of the bus line, so that was impossible for a Magic Kingdom bus. Our worst bus experience of the trip (thankfully it only happened once) was when we got onto a bus, not knowing how full it was...before we could have had an opportunity to get off the bus speeds away from the bus stop. I have to say I was very surprised at how long it took for someone to offer their seat to my Mom who was holding my son. I'm not saying that it should be required, but I do think that the spirit of the action means much more than the actual seat. We had 7 adults in our party and often got up to offer our seats for everyone but the person holding my son. At the risk of sounding naive, I just think that it would be nice if people could be more supportive, which would probably lead to better understanding, than automatically responding with anger.
As for the parades, I'm thinking that I won't even try with those anymore, everything we tried still resulted in a frustrating experience - those are CRAZY crowded!! I think next time we'll try for early November ;-)