luvsJack
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2007
The ceremony was family only..12 people in total. Our invitation for the reception stated no gifts please. Most people complied.
It is possible to have an event and not make it a gift grab.
You don't think it was just as rude for you to put a friend in another part of the house alone during the ceremony as it was for him/her to show up early? I mean would 14 rather than 12 people have made that much difference? Sounds like something that could have put a huge wrench in their friendship.