Lilacs4Me
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- Aug 31, 2015
I dont think it is boredom so much as that many people get together and spend 10-18 years having kids, doing the family thing, kids grow up, the adults think, "is this all to life? FOMO when I see my childless adult friends!!!!" And they want to catch up on all the fun.... often the other person is not in that mental place yet.... if they still want to overparent their teens, they like their simple life, etc.
That makes sense. DH and I have had those conversations since we are exactly at that point in our lives. We have one graduated from HS last year, one Sophomore, and the youngest is in 8th, so we are only 5 years away. We are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel and thinking about the next phase in our lives and have even asked ourselves if this is "it". After 29 years together, things do get a little boring sometimes, a little routine, and a little stifling. So, I guess having a little excitement coming at you from a coworker so blatantly might be fun for a while.
It's just so sad that people actually ruin their families and marriages over it. That's probably why this issue is making me a little crazy right now - because we are in the same "phase" as of life as DH's coworker and if it can happen to them, it can happen to us! I better tell DH to be careful of that woman lol, he might be next!