ducklite
<font color=teal>Take the Poly, it's fabulous!<br>
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- Aug 17, 2000
I just really want to say that I don't think people should take what people post on here so personally. It almost seems as if you are so defensive about what someone posts, as if they are talking about YOU personally! People are just on here to sometimes get things off of their chest and talk about a situation with people who might be going through a similar scenario. People of course have the right to comment, but do you really have to get so upset? Some of the people posting on here act as if they were the ones who made up the seat assignment for the airline! I for one would want at least someone in my party to sit with my child, I do understand that sometimes situations happen, but I would certainly give up my seat if I saw a child seperated from their mother/father if for no other reason then I don't want to be responsible for watching someone elses child. What if the child has an potty accident, or spills juice all over himself or me, what if it is a turbulent flight and the child starts to cry? I don't want to have deal with it. I hope you are able to get to sit with your children. AND, I hope everyone else on here lightens up a little bit. This is supposed to be a place where people can go for advice, not to be attacked! We all have a love of Disney World, the happiest place on earth, this should be like it to! You don't always have to agree with what someone says, but if you don't have anything nice to say, then I think you shouldn't say anything at all.
But looking at the flip side, parents need to prepare for the possibilities of being split up. IMHO it's far better to present very possible scenarios so that people can plan ahead (ie older kids not sitting with parents) than to sprinkle copious amounts of pixie dust and lead people to believe that indeed it will all be fine and they will all sit together--a distant reality at best.
IMHO this is the same type of scneario as people booking standard rooms expecting upgrades. Or people celebrating birthdays expecting free cakes in thier rooms. In reality, these things happen far less than we are often led to believe on these boards, and I've seen many people over the years not prepare accordingly, not temper their expectations, and be sorely disappointed or even very angry in the end.
Sometimes a dose of reality is far better than a sprinkle of pixie dust when it comes to planning.
I'd like to thank MiniGirl for her great imput on this thread. Listen to her folks, she obviously knows what she is talking about. While attempts will be made to help families who are seperated, sometimes it just doesn't happen. FA's will not force passengers to move. And parents need to be prepared with a back up plan.
In the OP's case, my suggestions are to get to the airport very early to check in and try to get seats together. In all honesty, if you live near the airport, even driving over there today and speaking with the agent at the ticket counter might produce results. I think she did a great job preparing the older girls for what is probably the inevitable. Hopefully they will be able to sit together. And one other thing, I would inquire as to seat availability on the next flight a day or two before your travel date just in case. This will potentially give you an option if you can't be seated with the two youngest kids so that you can perhaps ask to be booked on the later flight if they can seat you together there.
And FWIW, even if you end up sitting next to a young child, you are under no obligation to--and from a legal standpoint probably should not--assist that child with anything. If the child has an accident or can't handle their juice, the appropriate action would be to press the flight attendant call button rather than be accused of "touching" someone elses child. I've seen some really stressed out travelers making some outrageous comments and accusations over the years--including one on a Southwest flight last year who carried on about disabled people preboarding before her family, and was kicked out of the preboard line and back over to "C" with her family. It got to the point that airport security was called. These people were the last on, and split up all over the plane. No one moved for them after seeing the scene this woman made. After the way she carried on, it's no wonder people wanted nothing to do with her or her family. Also, it's not always a matter of giving up a seat for a child, sometimes the parents are already sitting next to their other kids, and the "oddball" ends up next to you. Please keep that in mind.
Anne