riginally Posted by Schmeck
Why do you assume your 4 yr old kids are going to scream the entire flight? You have 3 1/2 weeks to introduce them to proper behavior on an airplane. Or are you going to instruct them to scream because they are not with you? I hope you do get to sit near each other, but with 3 kids, are you the only adult? If so, there's no way you are all together - there are only 3 seats next to each other on each side of an aisle, except on international flights.
The above is not me, I am flying with two kids two adults so my odds are I hope more in my favor but this statement I ahd to respond to:
And I am introducing flying to my child and talking about the plane and such but as someone else said each child is different. DS4 will lose his mind if separated from me I think no matter how much I prepare him. He gets upset when he gets dropped off at school some days yet I prepare him all the time, he actually loves it when he comes out, yet today he told me he is not going back (he is on vacation so no issue)
First of all, I would never instruct my child to scream about this sort of situation. Good God, I would go insane listening to them.....not to mention everyone else!
No, I was referring mainly to my son who can be described as the 4 year old above.
His twin would probably be ok, she is a little more 'social'. Obviously, my 20 month old will sit with me.
I know our plane situation will work out. We have 3 young kids, but also 3 adults travelling. Our plane situation has 2 seats together. ALL of the other seats are single seats......nowhere near each other IE one in row 4, one in row 17, one in row 24 one in row 31.
Just my opinion, but I also believe it to be a healthy dose of fear of strangers
at this age, & especially as someone else said in a new situation.
My kids have travelled well (behaved) in the past, to the point of being complimented. That doesn't mean every experience will be the same.......that is the joy, & headache, of being a parent of young children.