Hikergirl
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 28, 2016
Everyone does things differently so there is no right or wrong way.
If I invite any of my kids on a trip, especially one as expensive as WDW I will pay for them as long as I am able too.
I don't think there is anything wrong with asking your young adult children to pay their way, as long as there is no pressure on them to go. It's a big expense for a young adult and they may choose not to and parents have to be Ok with that.
I also think that when you expect them to pay their way, you have to also expect that they may not spend the entire vacation with you and they will do their own thing.
I'm not saying you are doing any of those things OP, they are just general thoughts.
If I invite any of my kids on a trip, especially one as expensive as WDW I will pay for them as long as I am able too.
I don't think there is anything wrong with asking your young adult children to pay their way, as long as there is no pressure on them to go. It's a big expense for a young adult and they may choose not to and parents have to be Ok with that.
I also think that when you expect them to pay their way, you have to also expect that they may not spend the entire vacation with you and they will do their own thing.
I'm not saying you are doing any of those things OP, they are just general thoughts.