If Meghan feels like an outsider, she should. She's newer to the family and I doubt there's been many cumulative hours spent together getting to know each other. She's also American, new to the monarchy situation, and new to the duties she's doing. Feeling like an outsider is not necessarily a negative thing, but just a fact. Some of it is incumbent upon her to amalgamate and get herself involved. If she's tried and failed and this is their solution, so be it. But I do hope she gave it the old college try.