I agree. I am a Pediatric Occupational Therapist, and always note who is in a chair, ECV, etc when we get on the bus. More because I am looking at the different brands and how they work out so I can use them for my own patients!
I haven't seen anyone denied boarding, not that I don't think it happens. Totally sucks...
But I have been to Disney once when I was pregnant (actually high risk at the time) and also with an infant. There were several times I had to stand on the bus when pregnant, holding onto a bar for dear life while my belly would bang into it as the driver starts and stops, slows down and speeds up repeatedly. Totally able bodied men sitting in seats, teens and young to middle aged women, etc.
Completely upset at Men who are clearly DADs and didn't make room for a pregnant woman or small children while they sit in a seat!!!
The worst was after waiting 1 hour for a bus at then MGM. My "older" parents weren't feeling well, but stayed in line as best they could waiting, each taking a break to sit close to the line, but not far enough they wouldn't be able to board. Meanwhile, DH and I are passing our 1 year old (who is fast asleep) back and forth because our backs were killing us. We chose to rent a stroller in the parks that trip, because we were tired of the c**p of trying to get even folded stroller on a bus. Finally we boarded, although I seriously hesitated because I saw it was standing room only. But the buses were few and far between, so on we went. Sadly with the assumption that *Someone* would at least let one of us (either my parents, or DH or I) sit with DD, and also our other DD who was 3 1/2 at the time.
But no, I braced myself against the plexiwall towards the back of the bus( you know where the ECVs are strapped?) held the baby and wrapped my arms around the pole (and DD) in front of me. My mom faced backwards and wrapped her arms around me to keep me from falling while standing and holding DD. Our other DD held onto my leg, and I steadied her with my leg bracing her to the same pole I was clinging to for dear life (since our bus driver was one of those who slow down and speed up throughout the trip, jerking the bus constantly) I am teary eyed just recounting the horrific trip from MGM to the Contemporary!! I even went so far as to continuously comment on how difficult was and dangerous it was to have a baby in your arms, and a small child standing while a bus was moving, but in a car the children MUST be strapped into a safety seat.
Um, hello, anyone see a problem here??
Anyway, sorry for the rant. Totally understand the frustration, from all angles!