Kristen
I am so sorry that you are dealing with this! I know that Karen had problems with the same issue last year, as did a lot of other DIS Brides.
I have been reading all of the threads on this board since last year, when my daughter got engaged. She's not having a Disney wedding -- but reading all of tips and advice from the brides here has really helped me offer suggestions to my daughter.
I've also learned to "tone it down" and not become a MOBZilla (Mother of the Bride-Zilla), after all, it's her day - NOT mine!
I love reading all of the planning journals, the trip reports and viewing all of the beautiful and amazing photos.