More reading more into my words then was said.
I didn't say people want or seek out ways to make people feel sorry for them.
If my house was destroyed by a hurricane, flood, or fire, I would welcome the attention in a time of need.
Not gone the way I expected?
The votes are definitely opposite of what I would have expected.
At this point over 90% of people believe the same as I do yet seem to think they don't.
Very confusing.
I have planned for the potential destruction of my home, I have bought a homeowners policy. I also avoided purchasing a home in a 100 year flood plain. I have replaced my smoke detectors at 10 years old. I maintain the major mechanical systems in my home so they are in proper working order and less likely to spark a fire.Why? Wouldn't that mean you've just not planned adequately? I mean why in the world would you live anywhere near where there would be a hurricane, flood or fire? Poor planning.
People really should read and understand before answering questions.I suspect that is due in LARGE portion to the fact that many answered the poll before reading your examples and realized that your poll question isn't really illustrating what you're trying to derive based on your examples.
I suspect that is due in LARGE portion to the fact that many answered the poll before reading your examples and realized that your poll question isn't really illustrating what you're trying to derive based on your examples.
People really should read and understand before answering questions.
Funny because I was thinking that before one posts a poll one should make sure their intention is clear.
I wouldn't take your poll results as any indication of if people actually agree with you.
I read your question and almost answered yes. If I had taken your question at face value that would have been my true and honest answer. A question should be honest and forthcoming, not a ploy to attempt to gain leverage.
However it is clear from your post (which is actually separate from the poll) that I dont agree with you at all and your examples are ridiculous and so incredibly entitled.
I have planned for the potential destruction of my home, I have bought a homeowners policy. I also avoided purchasing a home in a 100 year flood plain. I have replaced my smoke detectors at 10 years old. I maintain the major mechanical systems in my home so they are in proper working order and less likely to spark a fire.
But as I have said, here are exceptions.
Oh, I get it. If it happens to you, it's an exception. If it happens to other people, they haven't planned properly. Believe me....that comes through loud and clear.
I think people are taken aback by the lack of thoughtfulness and the amount of judgement. Your ideal of personal responsibility is based upon your own personal circumstances. There are people who are suffering the consequences of abuse or trauma, lack of education, series of tragedy or misfortunes and poverty. Why judge and say, well that's a lack of personal responsibility? Why not say, how can I help?You seem to be reading an awful lot into a few words posted on the internet.
But it does seem that I value personal responsibility much higher then many on this message board.
That would be the personally responsible thing to do.
I think people are taken aback by the lack of thoughtfulness and the amount of judgement. Your ideal of personal responsibility is based upon your own personal circumstances. There are people who are suffering the consequences of abuse or trauma, lack of education, series of tragedy or misfortunes and poverty. Why judge and say, well that's a lack of personal responsibility? Why not say, how can I help?
More reading more into my words then was said.
I didn't say people want or seek out ways to make people feel sorry for them.
If my house was destroyed by a hurricane, flood, or fire, I would welcome the attention in a time of need.