angelbaby129
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Feb 20, 2009
Oh, I feel I am going to get flamed. Maybe it's because I secretly struggled with infertility for a decade. I felt so sorry for Kate, not Randall. Kate wanted to keep it a secret, and when the secret was discovered by Rebecca, sure enough Kate felt judged and belittled by Rebecca. She was backed into a corner and blurted out that she just wanted to see her dad's face in her child. That wasn't meant to hurt Randall, and it wasn't meant for Randall's ears either! That girl adored her daddy and she is grasping at the hope of having a baby that will remind her of him. And let me tell you, fertility medications are so powerful. I remember reading that people felt as though they were fine and all of a sudden it was like they were literally hit by a huge wave
I agree with you. Infertility is so so hard because you want something so desperately that comes so easily for others. I also feel like Kate's comment was taken completely out of context. Of course Randall can pass on Jack's love and life lessons. I don't think anyone is disputing that. However, when Kate said that, she was talking biologically. She wants her baby to look like Jack. Like it or not, Randall's children can't look like Jack. He can not biologically pass on anything of Jack.