After DD3 and I enjoyed our heavenly nap and an uncharacteristically speedy freshen up/clothing change, we headed for the monorail. We split one of those giant salted caramels from Germany-cot as we waited. As reported on the DIS, (thank you!) it was De-DIS-a-liscious.
My oldest daughter had to work the next morning so we knew she would be leaving that evening to make the two+ hour drive to Jacksonville. I was thrilled when she said she could stay for our 7 pm dinner reservation and I was able to add her, happy to be squeezing in these last moments with her.
We arrived at the restaurant in plenty of time and were greeted by my agitated husband. He reported that the two older girls were in a shop, deciding on which matching tank tops they should get so they can take a nice photo for me as a surprise Mother's Day gift. (Surprise! We'll be charging three shirts to the room!)
Their original secret plan was to re-create a Disney World photo from our 2003 trip. But, because no one took it upon herself to be in charge of selecting and bringing a photo, they had to abort plan A and go with plan B. They were going to do a matching shirt photo instead. I knew darn well this was cooked up by whichever one, or ones, of them wanted to score a free shirt. But I didn't really mind. I'm a sucker for cutesy photos and they mean even more to me, the older I get. I decided it was kind of nice that after dinner, they would pose for a photo before we said our goodbyes to DD1 and saw her off.
DD 3 took off to go assist with the shirt acquisition. Hubby and I waited at a table on the sidewalk and caught up on the day. He was looking and feeling exhausted. And that is not good. Tired hubby becomes crabby hubby. I know for certain that the only way to salvage this situation is to administer fatty foods, and fast! Thankfully, 7 pm was drawing near. But, of course, 3 members of our party are missing and we all know that's Disney Dining Taboo.
Then the texts start.
"They only have 2 of the shirt we want so the lady is trying to find us the third one."
Me. "Ok. Come back. Table is ready. Get shirts later"
"Ok, almost done"
Me: "no. Just come now."
"Ok. 2 secs"
Remember that scene in frozen when Anna is holding up her feet by the clock? Tick tock tick tock. That's me.
Remember that scene with Marshmallow, the enormous, angry snow bully? That's DH.
7:00 No daughters.
7:05. No daughters
7:10 no...
"We're coming."
Finally they show up. No shirts.
A long story about the shirts they originally planned on is shared while I think about the current time and do a little travel math. I wonder why it annoys me that my 27 year old daughter is leaving after dark for a solo road trip on a (gasp) HIGHWAY in this unfamiliar location and whether she has her phone charger. And did I remind her about the dangers of texting and driving enough times? And, for cryin' out loud, it's it SCHOOL NIGHT! Oops. I mean work day. She has work in the morning. Oops. I'm back to reality. She's 27. But sometimes, when she makes certain facial expressions or laughs in a certain way, she's still 5 to me. I'm missing her already.
We order and everyone loves their food. I had tuna salad because of course I'm always too hot. And I'm allergic to about 100 things. (Really)
Hubby had his very favorite comfort foods: a burger and milkshake, which either improved his mood or his blood sugar or possibly it simply left him too uncomfortable to cause much trouble. Anyway, all was good again and the Snowbully was back to being a prince.
DD3 had meatloaf and mashed potatoes which was heaped so high on the plate that it drew gasps of admiration from neighboring tables. And that's saying something. Because it's still meatloaf! She ordered the $6.99 Ariel Punch (hey, why not- dad's paying!) It includes a glow-in-the dark Ariel clip on which became the big hit of the evening.
She removed the glowing Ariel clip from the straw and wore it all evening in various positions on her person and, much like her father, was again content with the world because The Plaza met some need.
For the rest of the evening she got lots of attention because of the clip. And, as everyone knows, the baby of the family thrives on attention. Even when the baby is 19.
The glowing Ariel was especially admired by all the CMs at The Voyage of the Little Mermaid. They wanted to know where and how she got it. I'm guessing quite a few fantasyland cast members ordered the $6.99 glowing Ariel hair clip that comes with free side orders of red punch and happiness, at their earliest opportunity.
I'm not mocking them. There is something very special about Cast Members who are passionately enthusiastic about the character or attraction most closely connected to their job. Magic.
Anyway, back to The Plaza.
With a lump In my throat, I prepared to bid our daughter farewell. It had been a difficult month for her and I...
Oh. Where are they going? Oh yes! Fast pass! We rush over to Space Ranger Spin. Very fun and now so sad because she probably needs to get going.
No?
Oh, yes. The shirts. They are discussing the shirts again. They make a decision and even though they are already wearing matching Purdue tank tops, they agree that mom will just love a photo of them at Disney in matching Disney shirts. And they are correct but I can't help but worry about it being a school...work night and very, very dark.
After much discussion, they decide on and purchase matching Mickey tank tops. During that lengthy discussion and subsequent purchase, which surely included much browsing and giggling and sisterly insulting, hubby and I completely checked OUT of family time and ditched them. And we went around and did whatever... and it was great. Lines were short because the first parade was drawing near and we had a good time taking advantage of that, including additional spins on Buzz.
We meet up with the girls and we ask DD1 what time she has to leave.
"Eh, pretty soon I guess."
Now, we all know it's not going to be soon.
DD2: "What? We didn't do princess pictures yet!"
I'm thinking there is no WAY I'm waiting in a princess line again in my life. Not ever. I vowed that, like...back in the 90's. (Well, it was at least 2003ish.) I declared a complete moratorium on visits to Princesses, Chuck E Cheese and the Easter Bunny around that time. Period. (Santa, of course, is a whole different story.)
The posted wait time was only 10 minutes. And, I rationalized, I actually would like to see the interior of Princess Fairytale Hall. And I could at least hang out with my family while they waited because I was starting to get a little heavy-hearted about going from a party of five to a party of four.
So, you know.
Kudos to the princesses who are clearly trained in picking up on body language and visual clues like clothing because they know how to make everyone feel special. They asked questions like:
"Is everyone in your kingdom so tall?"
"Purdue? Is that the name of your Kingdom? All of you?"
(DD1: "Well, I moved to the Kingdom of Jacksonville but I still like that one too.")
And my personal favorite Princess-ism of the evening:
"Oh, the Kingdom of Purdue. I've never been there but Prince Phillip has. He visits that Kingdom quite, quite often."
These personalized and slightly silly comments leave my daughters giggling like six year olds. And THAT is why adults enjoy meeting characters!
Ah! The shirts. They forgot to change into the matching Mickey shirts for the princess pictures. They were still stuffed into my daughters gigantic purse.
Well, a late night ride in the Haunted Mansion would only take short time and we were headed right over there. Right after Wishes.
They did, at some point, change shirts and have some photos taken and I do love the photo and all the others from the trip. The ones with all three daughters are extra special because we only see our oldest a few times a year. I hate living so far from her but I love that she’s brave enough and confident enough to live on her own and take care of herself.
Her being at Disney World with us brought out the child in her. And that was absolutely wonderful. But it also brought out my longing for the old days of being a mom of three little girls. And I know it might seem ridiculous that we all kind of stepped into those parent/child roles at times, but something about being at Disney makes it okay.
Walking out of the park with her that night was bittersweet in the same way as a child boarding a bus to kindergarten for the first time or getting a driver’s license or graduating from college and moving to another state. It’s hard to let go but you know it’s time. We helped her pile her bags into her trunk and hugged and kissed goodbye.
And hugged again.
And then one more.
Hubby took a dozen photos as she drove her very own car away, headed to her own town and her own life.
I know this sounds corny and overly dramatic but I wanted to include it because many of you on the DIS will experience this. And I want you to know that yes, the magic DOES return and it really is just as much fun when your children are adults. Obviously, the fun evolves through the years, but it IS still magical.
Tune in next time for “Party of Four for four more days” or “One tantrum two tantrum, red tantrum, blue tantrum.”