ashley0139
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Sep 24, 2009
Oh, for Pete's sake people - they're offering to take the kid to a theme park; it's not like the Dad is denying him a life-saving organ transplant or something. Many, probably most, kids don't ever make it to Disney World and they go on to live happy, productive lives. I didn't - although I had the best parents in the world. I'm happy to be able to take my own DS and vacations are important to us, but they sure wouldn't be at the expense of everyday necessities or future education.
That said, @Dadof3inNH , we have taken friends of our son's with us as guests several times. It was always as a poster has previously mentioned - we thought our only child would have more fun with a companion. It wasn't a pity gesture and certainly not charity. We just felt it was proper etiquette to pay for the guest we invited. It's probably far less about doing something for your son than doing something for their own.
I do think though that you are just not OK with this situation and you don't have to be. Although I don't exactly share your sentiments, I don't think you need to defend them here. Just say no - your kid will get over it. I hope you do get to spend some good times enjoying yourselves as a family - it doesn't have to be a trip to Disney to do that.
Oh please, no one is treating this like it's an organ transplant. But the kid has an opportunity he wouldn't normally get and the only thing standing in the way is dad's pride. Frankly, it doesn't seem like there's a legitimate reason for the kid not to go except that it makes dad feel bad.