irisbud, I actually have gone on the wishbook and created an account. I designed a beautiful wedding in which we get married at epcot italy, and have our reception at the Yacht Club resort... with a photo session in magic kingdom so i can have pics in front/near cinderellas castle! Its COMPLETELY different from his brothers wedding...
Tink, we have discussed when we would want to have our wedding, which makes me even MORE mad. THey got married in 2005, and we would get married in 2010.... thats FIVE years after them. I am so sad about the whole situation...
myprincessgirlisa, That is exactly how I feel. Whats even more aggrivating is that they told us of their first choice here at home, if they weren't to have done the disney wedding, and .... what do you know, it was my first choice here too. do you think they would have been upset b/c we wanted to get married in the same catering hall?
mermaidebride, dont worry, that is not rude. Its just the truth. It is just upsetting because no one will reason with him, and I feel like if someone were to sit down and talk to him (from his family) he'd feel better about it... but no one will.
topsy, we have considered
disneyland, and we might look into it further, but it seems as though their wedding program is not as extensive and does not offer the same things that I fell in love with at disney world. I dont know, we will look more into it though. My fiance and I did decide that if we dont get married in Disney world, we will honeymoon there! that is exciting...
Dalepool and Brian Nobel, You both offer really good adivce and I will definitely keep that in mind for the future, as I know I have not heard the end of any of this! Thank you!
Hope, that breaks my heart (again!). I am so sorry and I know how you feel... to not be excited for you own wedding. I wish you all the best, and I really really hope that things work out for you! Try to keep your chin up, and hey, at least you will be at the happiest place in the world! that's something to remember, right?
chilly, we have offered the
DCL wedding option, as I see this as being extremely different. I dont think it is different enough though.
Caryn, I LOVE the "hate blockers" and I WILL ABSOLUTELY use them! I have a feeling there will be many times where I will be shooting Death Rays from my eyes at anyone who has anything negative to say and will need the shades to block them, as I fear I might kill them by accident... ha! Thank you for making me laugh, I really needed that!
As far as the multitude of questions that were asked by a lot of other people, his brother is 30 so probably old enough to realize how important this is to me and just give me his blessing.
I dont know how his wife feels about this, b/c all of this was discussed with out her being present. If I had to guess though, she feels the same as he does.
Lastly, we are really caught between a rock and a hard place, more so my fiance than me. He feels like there is too much at stake, and does not want to jeopardize his future relationship with his brother. So I don't really know where that leaves us... perhaps with no dream wedding. But we do get a nice honeymoon, I guess.