Hikergirl
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- Feb 28, 2016
I disagree. And I wouldn’t allow my child to do it. A year is not that long in the grand scheme of things. I’d imagine his parents know him better then she does
Different strokes. I personally wouldn't disallow my 19 year old adult child to speak to her boyfriend's parents if that was her decision. I don't control/micromanage them like that. I also encourage my kids to have relationships with their significant other's parents so speaking to them about serious concerns they have wouldn't be an issue.
What if he was suicidal, or doing drugs? His behavior is destructive and may become debilitating without treatment. It doesn't have to be something that puts him in immediate jeopardy, but it also isn't something that shouldn't be discussed with those who care about him and want him to get help.
Another difference is that when my kids are in relationships for a year it is serious for them, I as their parent may not agree but again I'm not into controlling my adult kids like that. The seriousness of their relationship is up to them, not me.
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