piper!!!
the same can be said for visual disabilities. even sometimes our sons don't get it.
we go into their homes, all the lights are off, cause it's daytime. I go around and turn all the lights on.... "now, you guys knew we were coming, you know dad can't see in the dark" "mom, it's daytime".....
ok, you know dad can't see in "the dim".
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(if you ever read hubby's trip reports, he laughs himself at his disability. you should read his report aout eating at San angel!!! (on the restaurant, review board).
but, it's true... sheesh.. they come into our house and say "why do you have ALL the lights on??? what is your electric bill?" in their defense, his visual problems weren't as bad when they lived with us....but still....
I am new to the disabilites board. let me preface by saying I have (by theory of osmosis, I think, from hubby) a very dry wit, kind of a Stephen wright kind of humor, a self deprecating type humor (now, either I have that correct, or I am incorrectly speaking of a cat missing its litter box.
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I realize disabilities aren't funny. hubby Nebo doesn't think so either. he isn't very amused when he goes to the retinal specailist and gets injections right in his eye!!!
he has always, his whole life, had to deal with life just a little differently, due to his low vision. but more so in the last few years.
being the funny, and extremely intelligent guy that he is, he has dealt with it.. (and with me, too!)
but you could never tell, when looking at him that he has extreme vsion problems. he doesn't use a cane. (he actually hasn't even totally accepted the fact that he has a disability. notice it is me here, not him.)
but, boy, the people behind us in many lines sure notice. I go first, hold his hand. I try to give directions... (great movie ride: soft right hard left, 90 degree right, etc. etc.) and the people behind us are just biting at the bit, cause there might be a few empty feet in front of us, and he is not walking fast enough for them.
we often let them go ahead. quite often, when we do that, al that occurs is , whne the line finally gets to the point where no on is walking anymore... the 20 people we let ahead of us cause we were "too slow" are stopped anyway.
they didn't gain anything by going around us.. well, yes they did, all 20 of them are now ahead of us. oh well
just like in the line for Toy Story Mania. the ride can only load so fast. it is NOT going to put you" back in line" if the family in front of you stops to take a picture in front of Mr. Potato Head. what I usually do is offer to take the picture for the family in front of me, so they can ALL be in the picture.
A customer at the VFW today (I tend bar at the canteen) asked me how my hubby deals with my obsession with Disneyworld. my answer was, "I wanted to go to Vegas once, but he wanted WDW.. hubby LOVES disney!!!"
and he wants to see it, as long as he can. God willing, many years.