Wow! In my 4+ years and (currently registered) 900+ posts, I don't think I have ever started such a long thread!
To everybody: I feel your concern and do not take offense at anything. I know that posting in such a unique, public forum is tricky in the best of situations and I would have chosen not to do so, if I was not prepared for any and every response.
Jenzebelle, you are so right! We have worked very, very hard to avoid such feelings, and even to avoid personal reactions that our DD might misinterpret. We truly do not harbor any resentment at this time but stress and anxiety can do strange things to normal people. Being aware of such pitfalls has made us determined to find a way around this minefield without any casualties (including us!)
Crissup, funny; very, very funny! I anticipate that my phone will ring just as the RnR hits 58mph. Being a very determined and resourceful mom, I will have it answered and standy-by airline tix arranged before we arrive at the "concert"! LOL!
DD had her regular counseling session today and all is very, very well. DD's OB said, "Of course, come right on in!" Great, huh?!?! Assuming the appt goes well, we only have 4 goals for our 39 hours. RnR for me, Kilimanjaro Safari for DH, LeCellier for both of us, and just chill (in the Florida heat, LOL!)
Again, no offense taken. Thanks to all who have stood by my side. Thanks to all who have takent the time to show their concern.
I'll keep you posted........