My son is getting married next summer. You are definitely on the invite list.
Hmmm, this cover the plate thing may work. Since it is a destination wedding in Europe, we are inviting all 200 people to the rehearsal dinner. So, they better take into account how expensive the rehearsal dinner is along with the black tie reception.
NOT. While the couple thinks it extremely tacky to put "no gifts" on the invites, as MOG, I will be putting the word out that their presence at the wedding is gift enough, especially with airfare and having to take time off from work (bride's family is funding the hotel rooms.) They chose to get married in a very expensive venue across the pond and they are extremely grateful for anyone willing to come. Even if the wedding was stateside, they would be absolutely horrified if any of their friends or family thought they had to pay an admission into their wedding. They want the wedding they can afford and don't want anyone to think anyone has to help them. They don't want to have to change their venue to meet their guest's budgets. It is their choice, and they want to share that with their GUESTS. Their biggest gift is being able to share their day with their dearest friends and family. They would be so sad if someone didn't come because they thought they would look cheap if they couldn't afford to "cover their plate."