Earstou
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 18, 2003
I've been following along, too, and have been thinking and praying for all of you. Hoping your dh gains strength and is able to get treatment.
We, too are on a similar journey with cancer. We've been on this wild roller coaster for about a year now. I often have no words.
One of the first things we did was to take photos of the entire family, photos of the two of us and photos of each child with their dad.
Originally he wasn't given much time, so we thought those might be the last ones, but we've been blessed with more time (chemo), and we've taken lots more photos since then!
While dh was in the hospital, he had a nursing student, who, in her beautiful Jamaican accent, told me I had been given a gift. She explained that most of us don't know when our loved ones will die, and therefore can't say good bye to them. She said I knew the time was coming, so now everyone could say goodbye and make the most of our time left!
We, too are on a similar journey with cancer. We've been on this wild roller coaster for about a year now. I often have no words.
One of the first things we did was to take photos of the entire family, photos of the two of us and photos of each child with their dad.
Originally he wasn't given much time, so we thought those might be the last ones, but we've been blessed with more time (chemo), and we've taken lots more photos since then!
While dh was in the hospital, he had a nursing student, who, in her beautiful Jamaican accent, told me I had been given a gift. She explained that most of us don't know when our loved ones will die, and therefore can't say good bye to them. She said I knew the time was coming, so now everyone could say goodbye and make the most of our time left!