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- Apr 29, 2004
Pretty sure it was 8.My exception to this would have been a cruise on the Wonder back in 2009 when we ended up at a table for 6 (or was it 8?) at Palo Brunch. I'm glad I met some people then.
Pretty sure it was 8.My exception to this would have been a cruise on the Wonder back in 2009 when we ended up at a table for 6 (or was it 8?) at Palo Brunch. I'm glad I met some people then.
I agree it is a great opportunity to meet and learn about others, however on most cruises that's not what I'm looking to do. My exception to this would have been a cruise on the Wonder back in 2009 when we ended up at a table for 6 (or was it 8?) at Palo Brunch. I'm glad I met some people then.
No that's not what happened. We were part of the first DIS Podcast Cruise and this was a group event. My wife and I were paired up with 3 other couples for brunch that day, one of which was Katie and her husband.Wait, wait, wait. You're saying they put you with others at Palo??? I have NEVER heard of that. Palo (and Remy) are the places where it's supposed to be guaranteed your own table I thought.
No that's not what happened. We were part of the first DIS Podcast Cruise and this was a group event. My wife and I were paired up with 3 other couples for brunch that day, one of which was Katie and her husband.
You are correct that you would not be seated with others at Remy or Palo.
I see so many on here that are very concerned about getting their own table. I understand this for those with certain food allergies, but for everyone else I am curious as to why?
We honestly have found that Disney does a great job at matching people and have made some life long friends with some of our table mates. So that leaves me wondering why so many are so insistent, even at lunch and character breakfasts.
Not putting anyone down in anyway for their preference, we all have likes and dislikes, just honestly curious.
Gotcha. Thank you for clarifying. The way it read it sounded like it was a not-planned thing.
I'm also very much a pleaser by nature, so if my dd's were acting up, I don't think I'd have a clear head on how to deal with them. I'd be way too worried about whether we are ruining someone else's meal.
Also, very introverted so am not interested in spending time with people I share nothing in common with.
We're not requesting anything but as a family of 5 with three kids under 5 I bet they won't inflict us on anyone.
For me, it's simple. We are THAT family. You know, the ones that bicker and order stuff without the onions or extra bread. And my teens kick each other under the table, even though we don't let them sit across from each other. I'm not a bad parent, I just have kids who like to challenge. Anyway, pair that with me, who stresses about disrupting others and it would make our meals miserable, as well as the other family's.
This rings so true for me. We took my teens on our first cruise and we shared with another family. Their daughter was so sweet and outgoing and trying to spark a friendship. My daughters acted surly, refused to go to the kids club, talked about embarrassing subjects and more. It was exhausting. Every night I wanted to crawl under the table.For me, it's simple. We are THAT family. You know, the ones that bicker and order stuff without the onions or extra bread. And my teens kick each other under the table, even though we don't let them sit across from each other. I'm not a bad parent, I just have kids who like to challenge. Anyway, pair that with me, who stresses about disrupting others and it would make our meals miserable, as well as the other family's. Then, I'd come here after the cruise, and that thread with all the horrible tablemate stories would be resurrected and we'd be the ones they'd be talking about... then I'd have to leave this great board out of embarrassment and I'd have those events and words swirling in my head for many years to come as epic failures... might never go on a cruise again for the same reason.
So, no tablemates, please. And yes, we tipped extra.
Talking to others when it is not my choice is work. In my job, I need to keep clients and volunteers happy and motivated. That often means hiding my thoughts and needs for the greater good. Day after day after day.
I've read a lot about people who refuse to put on a "show" of wearing dressy clothes while on vacation because it is *their vacation. To *me, vacation means not putting on a show of sociability: the freedom to be silent, to not have to plaster on a fake smile to make table-mates comfortable, to not have to be "on," to discuss things that are near and dear to my heart with my loved ones and not worry whether I am excluding people at my table or over-revealing my mind. I just want to be able to relax and be myself.
I would much rather have a choice of who I want to interact with when: you'll know I'm smiling and talking to you because it's genuine interest and not something required by the circumstances. There are plenty of chances to meet other folks without being assigned "friends."
Edited to add: This is coming from a place of great exhaustion, where this introvert has had to spend WAY too much time playing the chipper extrovert. I *so* need this vacation!!
We are all on a cruise. Boom, that's something you have in common! What fun activities did you do today? Ooh that sounds like fun. (While mentally adding it to your yep or nope list for the next cruise) etc