Hi, OP. Your profile says you're 23 and you say you're getting married next spring. Congrats! You're a cute couple.
Decisions you make now are extremely important to being financially stable in your 30s and beyond. Keep your credit score high, keep and stick to a budget, try to put at least a little bit into savings every paycheck, do not take on high-interest debt, like CCs. All the stuff that's no real secret. What I've noticed is that people who are wealthy (by bank account standards) do not necessary live like they are wealthy by outward appearances, and some of that is reflected in these comments.
While you're young and before you have kids, get as much education or training as possible in whatever career you've chosen. And it doesn't hurt to have a career with a lot of growth potential over the next several years.
FTR, I'm a senior director at an association in Washington, DC. My wife is a project manager at a very respected policy-focused institution. Living in a place with lots of jobs and high wages, doesn't hurt, if you can manage the cost of living.
See you at the Beach Club in 2027!