This is not at all common in my family (unheard of, really) with one exception. Nearly 20 years ago my brother & wife had a full term stillborn daughter. She was their first child. It was one of the most awful experiences I've ever encountered.
After the delivery, the nurses encouraged everyone there to see and hold the baby. They also said it was important to dress her in the outfit they brought to the hospital for her to wear and to take a few photos. We were all shocked but they said it would be important for them to have as part of their grieving and healing - to see her as a baby and love her as a real being not just as the idea of her.
They took the photos, and I've never looked at them after that day, but I'm pretty sure that my brother and his wife did.
I am a labor and delivery nurse and this is very common, if the baby is term and they now have a company that comes in a takes professional photos, they are the best they are wedding photogrophers that do this for no pay and it is very tasteful and without a lot of commotion and it is very good for these moms and dads sometimes they use these photos at the funural, it's hard to see but it's their baby, for moms that deliver tool soon they take some photos and usually give them a box with little momentos , everyone must be able to grieve in there own way.
I answered no. But then I have never understood the reason for an open coffin either
I am a labor and delivery nurse and this is very common, if the baby is term and they now have a company that comes in a takes professional photos, they are the best they are wedding photogrophers that do this for no pay and it is very tasteful and without a lot of commotion and it is very good for these moms and dads sometimes they use these photos at the funural, it's hard to see but it's their baby, for moms that deliver tool soon they take some photos and usually give them a box with little momentos , everyone must be able to grieve in there own way.
My father is a Funeral Director. Throughout my entire life I don't ever remember anyone taking pictures themselves of the deceased. My father takes photos for his records and I'm sure he would be willing to share them with families, however I've never known of anyone asking about them. I don't believe it to be wrong- but I don't ever think I've seen it happen.