I have been at a bus stop so crowded that not everyone could get on the first bus much less the second (and with a 45 minute wait for the second bus after a 35 minute wait for the first bus...well, let's see if your opinion changes at that point).But if everyone is getting on that bus does it matter who's first or second?
I will say again that I've never been at a resort bus stop that was so crowded that not everyone could get on the next bus.
Last December (early December, not at the height of park crowds), while staying at BC, the buses to AK were just out of whack. We got to the bus area (six of us in our party), and there were a few people waiting. Everyone was sitting on a bench. A bus to MK arrived...and a few people on the benches left. A bus to Epcot arrived. And a few people on the benches left. So we sat while waiting for the bus to AK. 20 minutes later, when the screen with arrival time FINALLY noted that the but to AK was on its way, a few of us on the benches went to wait by the mostly empty curb.
20 plus minutes later (still no bus), there was a huge group of people waiting behind us for the bus to AK. And it was pretty obvious those of us at the front of the curb had been there first. But when the bus pulled up (after loading two scooters plus related families), several people who had arrived well after those of us in the front of our line (some who had just walked up!) pushed forward and cut in front of people who had been waiting or close to an hour.
Sorry, but I wasn't in a mood at that point to just shrug my shoulders and think "OH WELL."
By the time that first bus was loaded, quite a few of us who were among the first to line up at the curb were still standing on the curb. AND there was a huge group of people (many who had just arrived) pushing in front of us and pushing from behind as they waited for the next bus. The crowd was so large that it was obvious that once again, there were too many people to fit on the next bus.
After close to 45 more minutes (with nary a bus to AK in sight while even more people arrived...with many walking onto the road to stand in front of us after asking if we were waiting for the bust to AK), I said "EFF this" and took my party of six to the front of BC where we caught a taxi that I paid for because it was worth it to escape the madness.
After that experience, I have very little patience with those who say "who cares how chaotic the line is like, you'll get on the bus anyway!!!" because...NOPE, you don't always get on the bus. Sorry, but you don't, and what I witnessed in December was ridiculous.
I know that experience was not typical, but it really, really soured me on the free-for-all bus lines at mods and deluxe hotels. I was shocked at the rude behavior. I've since included Uber and cab fares into my budget for this very reason...just not worth putting up with.