HopperFan
"It's a bug-eat-bug world out there, princess."
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- Sep 6, 2003
o.k. so i'm guessing from the general vibe on this thread NO ONE thinks the shower invite i once received that included a print-out of the registry with an item highlighted on it and written next to that item 'YOU WILL BRING THIS' was in any way, shape or form NOT TACKY
p.s. did NOT attend nor gift for that shower and heard via the grapevine that the guest of honer was very surprised/disappointed at the low attendance at her shower (for the record-SHE was in on how the invitations were done, it wasn't some rogue family/bridal party member).
Worse than tacky. This happened to DS ... he was invited to a couple shower and was told what to bring. Not only was he shocked but he found out it was formal being held at a hotel. A shower. He politely declined the invite and the assignment. It ended up being a bridezilla situation - directed at everyone, even guests ... so he opted to pass on the whole affair and "friendship" - which is sad but her true colors came out.
This entire wedding environment has gotten out of control. It seems to focus on gifts, social media appearance, one upping the last etc ............ and sadly the true purpose is getting lost. When I was talking the the bride friend yesterday she mentioned a young cousin was upset to not bring a plus one, so we got talking about guests. I told her I expect to be invited to my kids weddings, no others. No one should expect to be invited and honestly every wedding can happen with the bride, the groom and an officiant. The rest of us are extras ... so she needs to remember it's about her and her fiance, stop worrying about the rest. Enjoy her day, her moment and don't let the silly stuff worry her - especially a kid having a temper tantrum.