bumbershoot
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 5, 2007
I would hate to be a celebrity......because then they would really want to know about my date/non dates....
Like we don't ask you enough questions about it?
With the talking about it mention, I mean that if she says something like saying that AJ was "uncool", or if she talks about how she kept his voicemails in the same way she kept love letters from others, etc, people leap all over her in a pitying "oh she really needs to get over it" sort of way, pointing at how AJ and BP are "over it". Cuz, yeah, there was something for them to get over? I do know that a leaver does have issues to work out, but those issues are very different from the one that was left! And they usually have someone to work it through with like BP did.
I liked her recent quote that there really are no sides, though; it meshes with what BP tried to say in an article a month or so ago, that he's still friendly with JA and it's OK. I liked that.