This shows the massive difference in the era people grew up in. I can imagine at home the response is "oh look, you made a mess. Now I have to clean it up." vs "Look at the mess you made, you need to clean it up now."
I lived with that as an adult with my own children. Whether it was food or toys, all I had to say is "you need to clean up this mess" once and it was cleaned up if mom wasn't home. When mom was home, it was fighting with her whether I or the kids needed to clean up the mess. When she was at work, the house was clean. When I was at work, I came home and the house was trashed.