Okay, I sat down with the kids and gave them some money up front. I then showed them the chore chart and explained to them that they had all day to do the chores (feed the cat, take out the trash) and I would pay them each night. I told them there was not a set amount that they had to put into savings but it would be nice if they would put some in. DSS says he is not spending any of his on anything and will not be doing the late swims. DSD will need some work 'cause I practically saw her deciding what she was going to buy first. I told them I got them soda, candy and ice cream so there should not be that many trips to the ice cream stand. They were both excited at getting spending money. I really am an idiot because I did notice before that when they have their own money, they are much more careful about spending it. They didn't have any questions or concerns so hopefully we have found something that will work for us all. DH is mostly concerned with keeping me content (or at least quiet). I have not told him the full system yet but I'm sure he will be in agreement that it sounds like a good plan. He agreed to the points I did tell him about.
And is the trip back on? I don't know. I'm not really worried about it right now. The kids definitely still want to go but I told them that as of right now, it is on hold and we will talk about it in another couple of months. We can't even book anything until at least August so we will see how things have worked out until then.
And is the trip back on? I don't know. I'm not really worried about it right now. The kids definitely still want to go but I told them that as of right now, it is on hold and we will talk about it in another couple of months. We can't even book anything until at least August so we will see how things have worked out until then.