OK. I did not read all of the posts yet, but I wanted to comment on my first instincts - I totally agree with your DH. I do not know why, but something tells me that your DSS and DSD do not have a full appreciation for time and money. I also get the feeling they are playing both sides here. Now, granted they are 8 and 12, but still, there needs to be boundaries. I see no problem with cancelling the trip and then allowing them to EARN it back.
I think to many of us, myself included, give our children everything and forget to teach them the value of things. I am horrible for this myself, and I think the fact that your DH stood his ground and set a limit is great!! I admire him for it.
I do think that perhaps a deal can be reached where the kids can earn the right/priviledge to the trip back on good behavior. Maybe things like earning monopoly money for chores and good deeds and then if they have enough "money" they can buy the trip back??
Good luck to you!!
Amy
I think to many of us, myself included, give our children everything and forget to teach them the value of things. I am horrible for this myself, and I think the fact that your DH stood his ground and set a limit is great!! I admire him for it.
I do think that perhaps a deal can be reached where the kids can earn the right/priviledge to the trip back on good behavior. Maybe things like earning monopoly money for chores and good deeds and then if they have enough "money" they can buy the trip back??
Good luck to you!!
Amy