Finally got a copy today! First JP book and it grabbed me right away! Note to self, buy more of her books. I am afraid the DH is going to be somewhat ignored this weekend...
I am almost at the end of case #2...
Emma: Can not imagine her life as a single mom. As my DH lost his job a year ago I have been single mommy while he works out of town. That was hard enough with just regular old kids. Emma's whole life revolves around keeping Jacob on an even keel. I feel like she treats Theo more as another caregiver (peer?) than a son. Obviously, he feels that his real home is not a true HOME and is searching for that. I think Emma tries to do some family bonding stuff, like reading the letters out loud, but it isn't all that successful.
Jacob: I just love this guy! As a mom, I so want him to be normal for his sake, but he is who he is. I think he wants to have a relationship with Theo, but doesn't know how. Not knowing anyone with asperger's I wonder if his self awareness is usual for someone with that. Would I mind or be bothered if my DD or DS brought home a friend or girl/boyfriend with aspergers? No.
I do think someone with asperger's might be the only person who would tell me if I really do look fat in these jeans... Goodness knows, you ask any DH and they just say, you look fine!
Theo: Wow! I kind of feel like he grew up without a dad or mom. I know Emma loves him, but he seems to kind of get left out in the cold a lot. Has to change everything for Jacob and as I said above, his mom seems to see him more as an assistant caregiver. I think he had to grow up VERY fast and missed out on a lot of "mommy time" that kids just need... My heart hurts for him.
I think I am going to like Oliver...
It just steams me to no end when Emma talks about all the meds & supplements Jacob has to take that (naturally) insurance won't pay a dime for. I am not
surprised but I know it's like that in real life too and it is just not right...
going to go read more and try not to stay up all night doing so!!
Kelli