luvsJack
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2007
It may have been weird for you but it may not be weird for them at all (spending Christmas with a "new" family). We don't know their circumstances. Maybe they have never had a real family Christmas with lots of loving family around and the OP's cousin is wanting to give them that. Maybe they feel like the OP's cousin is some kind of connection to their father.
There is something I learned about kids a long time ago and this can carry over into adulthood too: Sometimes a bad parent is better than no parent. Not to everyone else, but to the child. In their eyes, they can "fix" mom or dad. And of course they believe him to be innocent, who wants to face the fact that their parent; the person who is supposed to love them unconditionally and be their hero, murdered someone?
There is something I learned about kids a long time ago and this can carry over into adulthood too: Sometimes a bad parent is better than no parent. Not to everyone else, but to the child. In their eyes, they can "fix" mom or dad. And of course they believe him to be innocent, who wants to face the fact that their parent; the person who is supposed to love them unconditionally and be their hero, murdered someone?