I don't disagree with your last paragraph. And my post wasn't aimed at you. I'm just confused how a random meltdown NOT in a show, etc. would become someone else's problem. Most people that encounter a meltdown can walk away. I could see on an airplane, it would suck, yes. But a random meltdown in the parks?
There is a lot of judgement going on in this thread, especially of kids having average, ordinary meltdowns. I happen to agree meltdowns shouldn't be disrupting a show, etc. My kid would be outta there. Just meltdowns in general and how to properly handle them and what shoulda, coulda, woulda been done. Apparently all moms should have psychic ability to read when you kid is going to have the next meltdown, and be sure to leave the park so it doesn't disturb them. Perhaps I'm reading it wrong, but that's how it's coming across.
I can't speak for others, but my kid is like Dr. Jeckyl/Ms. Hide. Sometimes just telling her she has to hold my hand causes an issue because she's little Miss Independent as well. You may happen to witness this in WDW. It's me. Just sayin'. Do I have to run out of the park because someone doesn't want to see my kid freak out while I'm enforcing a rule? I know my kids' meltdowns lasts about 5 minutes and then she goes on her merry way like nothing happened.
I expect to see all types of behaviors at WDW, just like I would at Chuck E Cheese, or another amusement park, or the Jersey shore. If we don't feel like dealing with kids, we go to Vegas. I have sympathy for other moms, and would never, ever judge them based on a random meltdown we just witnessed. That was my point. I happen to think teenagers are WORSE! And everyone that has teenagers tells me to ENJOY this stage my DD is in.
We are doing WDW for the first time as parents. Currently seeking advice on how to schedule breaks and when. But I 'get' it's the age, and just follow others advice the best way and apply it and hope it works. In the meantime I didn't know we should be worried if a random meltdown here and there disturbs other guests. I kinda figured it's WDW and everyone should be paying attention to having fun and not how other guests are parenting their children.
I too completely expect to see kids melting down in the parks. Does you child still take naps or recently stop? When we went with a 2 and a half year old who still napped we tried to take a break at the condo mid day. Some kids can nap in a stroller or go without naps, but our's really needed that mid day break. I think the best thing is to try to be really flexible with your schedule, bring lots of snacks, and expect the unexpected.
Enjoy your little kids! What is that saying? "little kids, little problems; big kids, big problems" I have an almost 15 yo old and a very easy going one, that we always hear is so funny and well behaved out of the house. At home - MOODY and CRANKY is how I would describe him most days. I've read it's all evolutionary, so they want to leave and we want them to leave the nest, right!?!