Parents of the High School Class of 2017/College 2021

Do some internet searches for scholarships- I've been looking for DD16 and found that tons of them are for seniors and/or current college students.

http://www.thescholarshipsystem.com...-scholarships-to-apply-to-by-the-end-of-fall/
This blog will have a list for each season.

I don't know how good the chances are on these national ones you find on the internet, but DD19 did win a national one for $1500 renewable. I think we found it on Sallie Mae. The blog above says that the scholarships that are just for current college students are less competitive because so many students stop applying once they get into college. Also, does her college have their own scholarships for future years? I've looked at lots of colleges' websites and some of them at least had a foundation or other endowed scholarships that were for sophomores and up. DD19's community college has a foundation scholarship app and she can apply every semester so she will. She got $500 for her first semester and we're waiting to see if she got anything for next semester. She also applied for a couple more national ones but I'm not going to have her spend much time on those when the foundation is much more likely and her tuition bill is low anyway.
Good point about current college students - I know when I was looking at Shriner scholarships due to a familial connection, they had several that were for the sophomores and up. The universities often have those "automatic" types but its probably worth a few minutes to look and see what else is out there for the upper class students
 
I knew this was coming "hey mom, ok if I don't come home for March break, I am going to go to Florida with my boyfriend to one of his room mates parents house on the beach"- funny because I texted a friend saying "well I just got my not coming home for break text" and she said she had gotten hers 2 days ago LOL- her daughter going to Myrtle Beach for the week with friends. My daughter is flying home tomorrow for the weekend- Saturday is her birthday and she said she was getting a tattoo and I would rather her get it at a place I know here than some strange place in Boston- then we are going out to a nearby casino...odd having an "adult" child now LOL
 
This thread is quiet.... sounds like everyone is settled at school. Ds is doing well. He has 5 days off over Thanksgiving so I'm excited he will be home. I also have my niece (23) and nephew (21) and his girlfriend coming. My sister and her husband live oversees now so I will be acting mom. My sister is a little bummed that we are meeting her son's girlfriend before her. I look forward to a full house. Should be fun.
 
I'm looking forward to picking my son up for Thanksgiving break. There are rumors of a lot of snow coming that week, so I hope those are incorrect (or at least exaggerated). If the weather cooperates, I'll have all of my kids at home at the same time for the first time in a year. My parents are also coming, and my in-laws may depending on what my sister-in-law is doing. So, fingers crossed and pixie dust that the weather isn't an impediment to travel for any of us!
 


DD comes home Friday night and will be home until the Sunday after Thanksgiving. I can’t wait to see her!

The college that my older two went to had the entire week off for Thanksgiving which was so nice! My son has classes through Tuesday afternoon. It's about a 3.5 hour drive one-way, but I'm not working Tuesday, so I just want decent weather!
 


We got a hotel and spent the weekend with DD. It was a nice visit. We found out that she doesn't have class on Wednesday so we will pick up on Tuesday night now instead of Wednesday-whoohoo!

DD filled us in on her roommate . Her roommate is messing up and dabbling in things that she shouldn't be. Luckily the roomie is always gone with her friend and stays mostly over there. DD has the room to herself a lot but still locks up all of her stuff. I guess they don't even talk. My DD is so annoyed with her that she doesn't care if her and the roomie don't talk. DD said they only if dd initiates it. Roomie has a history of ignoring her parents for days-weeks too even when living in the same house. DD told me "mom how can she be that way with her own parents, She's not right in the head!"

Her parent have no idea what's going on and even if they did I don't think they'd do anything. Sounds like she runs the show :/ Its to bad because the roomie seemed so nice and innocent. Not sure if its college or its just how she is. I tell DD just hang in there a couple more months to go. DD really wants RA position now so she can get her won room and not deal with a roommate next year.

Other than that we had a nice time. We cant wait to see her for Thanksgiving. She's excited to eat ham, turkey and mash potatoes.
 
DD works Thanksgiving night and Black Friday. We don't have a big family Thanksgiving on the day, so that is fine. Maybe we'll go up and see her for a Thanksgiving lunch. BUT we do have Thanksgiving with DH's side on the Saturday after. When she started working they asked about Black Friday week availability and she had put down she could work Thanksgiving and Black Friday but not on the Saturday. She did not put in another request for the Saturday as she thought it was taken care of. And now she is scheduled 7:00 am to 12:30 pm. She could get to Grandma's house in about two hours so if she can't get this changed I guess she can see her cousins for a few hours after she gets off work.

The other wrinkle is that DD16 works (very little) at the ice cream shop. She had also requested 11/25 off and the only time she is scheduled that whole week is the evening of 11/25. There are lots of kids on staff so I'm hoping since she can trade for almost any other day she'll get it switched. Otherwise maybe she can go with us to Thanksgiving and leave early...ugh.
 
My DD ran into the buzzsaw that is first semester Chemistry. It chewed her up and spit her out and kicked her butt despite participating in a small group twice a week though the Chemistry Learning Center. She did fine on the labs, fine on the homework, fine on the quizzes but the tests stymied her. So, she dropped the course. We supported her in her decision and she's seen a couple of advisors. It looks like she'll be changing her major from kinesiology to rehabilitation psychology. She will have to take all the same courses (including the dreaded Chem 103 & Chem 104) to apply to PT School but she'll be able to spread out the hard science classes instead of having them all done by the second semester of her Sophomore year. The rehab psych degree is also a more "personal" degree that may be more attractive when it comes to apply to PT school.

She has a pattern of doing well on everything but bombing tests. She, like others kids here, was recently diagnosed with anxiety. Her therapist is working with her to request some accommodations in testing through the university. I hope it helps because it's frustrating to see it happen again and again.

On the bright side, her other classes seem to be going well. Her calculus class is (mostly) review and she writes well.

As for Thanksgiving, we are visiting my MIL and BIL's family in CT.
 
My DD ran into the buzzsaw that is first semester Chemistry. It chewed her up and spit her out and kicked her butt despite participating in a small group twice a week though the Chemistry Learning Center. She did fine on the labs, fine on the homework, fine on the quizzes but the tests stymied her. So, she dropped the course. We supported her in her decision and she's seen a couple of advisors. It looks like she'll be changing her major from kinesiology to rehabilitation psychology. She will have to take all the same courses (including the dreaded Chem 103 & Chem 104) to apply to PT School but she'll be able to spread out the hard science classes instead of having them all done by the second semester of her Sophomore year. The rehab psych degree is also a more "personal" degree that may be more attractive when it comes to apply to PT school.

She has a pattern of doing well on everything but bombing tests. She, like others kids here, was recently diagnosed with anxiety. Her therapist is working with her to request some accommodations in testing through the university. I hope it helps because it's frustrating to see it happen again and again.

On the bright side, her other classes seem to be going well. Her calculus class is (mostly) review and she writes well.

As for Thanksgiving, we are visiting my MIL and BIL's family in CT.
Rehab Psych sounds fascinating! Hope she finds her niche.

Just something I am going to throw out here since you mentioned issues with testing. She might want to explore her options before she goes down the PT route or at least know what is at the end.

The PT Test is a national exam - One can only sit for it a limited number of times and it is offered 3x's a year.
My DS went to school with a guy who has issues with testing, this young man graduated a couple of classes ahead of my DS in their PT school with great grades and promptly signed up for the PT exam. Their school boasts a 96% pass rate (or did till this guy came along) :rolleyes:

He failed on the first try, and 3 months later on the 2nd try. At some point the licensing board steps in and requires that the student skip an exam date and get some help for the test taking, this guy had to do that. A year after graduating with a very expensive degree, he was unable to work because he couldn't pass the test. He was married with a small child and the pressure was mounting which didn't help. So, the kid finally got smarter and engaged an expert to help him deal with the testing anxiety that was going to tank this career path if he didn't get a handle on it.

The first thing the psychologist did was sign him up for the PTA exam - if he could pass the assistance exam he could at least work as a PTA while dealing with his issues and the PTA exam would not count for or against his attempts at the PT Exam. So, he did, took two tries but he finally passed the PTA exam - then he had to step back and breath a bit - he did finally pass the national exam but it took almost 3 years post graduation and he was really close to the "exhausted" point of no return as to the number of allowed attempts.

A side note, while my DS holds a "national" license based on his exam, various states have their own requirements and some like California, require PT's take their test in order to obtain their state license (DS is currently seeking his CA License).
 
Oh... the dreaded chemistry!!

DD cried for the first time at college......all pent up anxiety regarding a chem test. She was so freaked out about the exam, and certain her future was going down the toilet.
We "talked her off the ledge", she went to tutoring sessions, an extra lecture and met with the professor.
She took the exam on Friday, and she's still waiting on the grade.
Fingers crossed!
 
Maybe I should give DD a bit of slack on her Chemistry grade-currently her lowest. What bothers me is that her very expensive chemistry text book was still in the plastic wrap when we went for family weekend. She says the professor doesn't use it but I can't help to think if she read some of it it would help her grade.



The college that my older two went to had the entire week off for Thanksgiving which was so nice! My son has classes through Tuesday afternoon. It's about a 3.5 hour drive one-way, but I'm not working Tuesday, so I just want decent weather!

I'll be hoping good weather too so Lizzy can fly home Tuesday & for us to drive her to Albany Sunday.
 
Maybe I should give DD a bit of slack on her Chemistry grade-currently her lowest. What bothers me is that her very expensive chemistry text book was still in the plastic wrap when we went for family weekend. She says the professor doesn't use it but I can't help to think if she read some of it it would help her grade.

I'll be hoping good weather too so Lizzy can fly home Tuesday & for us to drive her to Albany Sunday.

Miles loves chemistry and does well in it as did his brother. I'm not sure where they get it from because chemistry was my nemesis. :) His book was also expensive, and it wasn't even bound! We had to purchase a binder to put it in.

My fingers are still crossed that the weather is good! It can storm Saturday-Monday if it needs to, but I need it to be clear on Tuesday and the next Sunday.
 
Funny about the chemistry. Before midterms, DS was convinced he was going to have to withdraw. Now, it's his favorite class. Calculus 2 is the one giving him trouble.

Saturday, his college football team played at Fenway Park. He performed with the marching band and DH and I got to go. The halftime performance was fabulous. We joked that he fulfilled his childhood dream of playing at Fenway; it just wasn't quite how he pictured it. He said it was an amazing experience.
It was SO COLD, though! We made it through halftime and then headed out. It was also my birthday and it was nice to see him, even if it was from afar.

He comes home Friday night; can't wait!
 
Miles loves chemistry and does well in it as did his brother. I'm not sure where they get it from because chemistry was my nemesis. :) His book was also expensive, and it wasn't even bound! We had to purchase a binder to put it in.
Yup! That's why it's wrapped in plastic.

Next semester should be a bit better Calc II & Meteorology II use the same books as she has this semester. She's taking honors Western Civ this semester and American next. She's got a friend doing the opposite so hopefully they can trade books. That just leaves 2 other classes.
 
Yup! That's why it's wrapped in plastic.

Next semester should be a bit better Calc II & Meteorology II use the same books as she has this semester. She's taking honors Western Civ this semester and American next. She's got a friend doing the opposite so hopefully they can trade books. That just leaves 2 other classes.

I think his German book was the most expensive, and that one he'll use again next semester. The "computer access codes" that are required for some of the classes are also expensive. I'm not even sure what he's taking next semester. I know that he was going back and forth on how to fit things into his schedule, but I don't think he told me the final results. He hasn't shared any mid-term grades with us either, but I think he's doing well. I guess we'll have conversation topics for Thanksgiving. :)
 
I think his German book was the most expensive, and that one he'll use again next semester. The "computer access codes" that are required for some of the classes are also expensive. I'm not even sure what he's taking next semester. I know that he was going back and forth on how to fit things into his schedule, but I don't think he told me the final results. He hasn't shared any mid-term grades with us either, but I think he's doing well. I guess we'll have conversation topics for Thanksgiving. :)
Yes, Niece's Spanish book with access codes was really expensive and you can't really buy it used. I think her grades are fine, because when she was having trouble in Spanish, I got daily phone calls. Lol. Things seem to have quieted down. We will see when final grades come in.
 
Miles loves chemistry and does well in it as did his brother. I'm not sure where they get it from because chemistry was my nemesis. :) His book was also expensive, and it wasn't even bound! We had to purchase a binder to put it in.

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I just visited my daughter 2 weeks ago and she has a "book" like that too- though she has not even opened the plastic that is sealing it!!! Waste of money!
She will be home for Thanksgiving next Tuesday night- she is looking forward to a few days of hanging out with her friends from high school-they haven't seen each other since August! She is doing fine in school- I can't wait until I can take her off the meal plan at school! It is required for freshman that they have at least a 10 meal plan each week- she ends up only using 3 or 4 of them a week-she goes to the boyfriends on Friday and doesn't come back to her dorm until Sunday and she eats over there one other night during the week too- he has a house with a kitchen so they can bake and cook there.
 

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