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- May 27, 2011
The obstinate behavior of my 13 year old daughter today has inspired this thread. She had piano lessons today and about half way through her lesson decided to cross her legs. He piano teacher asked her to uncross them because she would not be able to use the pedals properly or have proper posture to play and move up or down octaves. He tried asking her nicely and explained why she couldn’t sit that way while playing. She refused, he then asked if I could talk to her. She was adamant that’s the only way she could sit comfortably and still refused. She didn’t care that I would take away her electronics or cancel her plans to trick or treat with friends, keeping her legs crossed was the battle she wanted to fight. After a couple minute stand off where we all just waited in silence for her to uncross her legs, we just ended the lesson early. Her lesson is only 1/2 and hour so it’s not like it was even a long time left where she had to sit “uncomfortably” in her words.
She’s my youngest and the roller coaster of puberty hormones affects her so much more than my son or other daughter. I never yelled at her I just explained how disappointed I was in her stubborn behavior, took away her electronics and am making her write an apology letter for being disrespectful to her teacher, along with some hugs to let her know that despite her poor choice today I love her and if there’s more going on she needs to talk about I’m here. She really couldn’t explain later why it was so important to keep her legs crossed once she was out of her funky mood. I never would have guessed parenthood would involve a stand-off about keeping your legs crossed. I also never thought I’d ask why is there a brand new pair of socks with the tags on in the bathroom sink, but I have had to ask that one too . My husband has created a document to write down some of these silly stories or adventures the kids have so that way when they get older they have a little journey of their childhood as some of them get forgotten along the way.
So my question to you DIS parents is what’s your crazy my kid/teen did what story?
She’s my youngest and the roller coaster of puberty hormones affects her so much more than my son or other daughter. I never yelled at her I just explained how disappointed I was in her stubborn behavior, took away her electronics and am making her write an apology letter for being disrespectful to her teacher, along with some hugs to let her know that despite her poor choice today I love her and if there’s more going on she needs to talk about I’m here. She really couldn’t explain later why it was so important to keep her legs crossed once she was out of her funky mood. I never would have guessed parenthood would involve a stand-off about keeping your legs crossed. I also never thought I’d ask why is there a brand new pair of socks with the tags on in the bathroom sink, but I have had to ask that one too . My husband has created a document to write down some of these silly stories or adventures the kids have so that way when they get older they have a little journey of their childhood as some of them get forgotten along the way.
So my question to you DIS parents is what’s your crazy my kid/teen did what story?