AND people correlating formula feeding to hunger is ridiculous AND people correlating "reasonable" CIO to abuse is ridiculous. Or do you think that formula feeding actually does correlate to hunger and CIO does correlate to abuse? Because that is what you said. And all I'm saying is that the correlation between ANY of these is ridiculous - you can get to it in all these cases, but those are the BAD mothers.
Ok, ok, ok. I get what you are trying to say, but let's not go there.
I believe that ChristmasEveTwins did not read the post with the article very well and missed the point(s) and spirit of the post. She got sidetracked by personal beliefs and her hot button.
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While I do believe the majority of the posts on this thread have been fairly non-attacking, even when people disagree & defend their position, let's review here.
The OP had 5 days off. On 2 of those days, she sent her children to daycare. If they go to daycare during the school day, we can pretty safely assume that they are under the age of 5. She needed to get some stuff done and so did her DH. Did it matter if they needed to paint or do yard work or run errands (whether grocery shopping or looking for a new couch) or iron or vaccume or just reconnect as a married couple?
By doing these things in a faster manner (ever try running errands when your 3 year old just wants to get out and play or is in desperate need of a nap) and in a safer manner (trying to iron while a 17 month old baby is trying to pull on everything simply isn't safe) without putting all their attention on the child who might not be able to carry on his/her side of the conversation could actually lead to more (quanity & quality) time with the kids.
I mean, she probably already paid for her daycare with safe, nurturing, loving adults. But some think on the weekend or in the evening she should instead hire a teenager, paying even more money, who may or may not be CPR/first aid trained (which I'm sure the daycare people are), and probably not as experienced, so the kids could be alone v. having time with their peers learning by default (as kids learn from just being with other kids) just so she and her DH could have a meal and conversation together. I don't get it.