You made me check out Capital Grille right after I read your post. I'm quite lucky to have one that 10 mins from my house, but never try it since it opened on 2012. Now, I think I will give it a try.
The "Lobster Mac and Cheese" at H&V was good compares to other Mac and Cheese. However, it isn't much lobster in it. Not every scoop comes with lobster. Better to treat it as a plain Mac and Cheese.