Forgive that the title of this is from that Mya song...
So girls, I need some advice....
My high school sweetheart (Steve) is still on of my best friends, and he's very close to Philip. Philip even asked him to be one of his groomsmen but he declined. We go on double dates with Steve and his wifey-thing ALL of the time.
I've never met Philip's college girlfriend, I've heard of her but what I've heard is that they haven't talked in a few years and they aren't that close anymore. He's been in England the past two weeks for work, and he ran into her and I guess they've caught up and blah blah blah. Well, randomly, he asked if it would be OK to add her and her husband to the guest list. I have zero problem with this because whatever, DF and her broke up a long time ago and she got remarried and it's no big deal.
Well, FMIL thinks its a
BIG deal. In fact, she doesn't want this girl anywhere near our wedding. She doesn't want Steve anywhere near this wedding either (despite the fact that Phil and Steve are good friends). She thinks it's tacky. I've never met my MIL, and I won't until I go to England in April. I don't want to be on her bad side before I meet her, but I KNOW that whatever this woman and my DF had was over a long time ago so it doesn't bother me if she's there or not.
I told her I'd mull it over and that she could call her son if she felt concerned. I really don't know what to say to her other than "SHOVE IT".