Asking is not the same as demanding. Asking is not unreasonable. I repeat, I am entitled to ask and you are entitled to say no.
It's clear you don't have any personal experience with food allergy or your responses wouldn't be so flip. I sincerely hope that you don't encounter this kind of negativity with your life's struggles.
I hope the moderator shuts this thread down. I'm beginning to lose faith.
DVCDawn
I hope this thread does not get shut down. Not only does it have great information in it. It also shows how controversial flying with an allergy is. And I say allergy, because it's not all about peanuts.
Do I think you're being rude in asking someone to NOT eat their peanuts? No. I simply think you are being a mom and looking out for a child. Trying to protect and doing the parent thing that you parents do (no, I am not a parent
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Do I think you might be unreasonable? Yes. Your child lives in a world where there are nuts. Everywhere they go. Are you going to keep them from a concert hall? Or ask the people around you to not eat them? In school settings their whole life....high school and college/university? Make classmates stop eating nuts? In movie theatres. The list is endless. Because the peanut is everywhere.
The best thing that a parent can do, is make sure she is careful and smart and prepared. AND, if by someone eating a nut 2 seats over is going to create an anaphylatic reaction, then you might want to rethink flying. If just the 'smell' of a peanut can do that, I wouldn't want to be in a tin can how many thousand feet in the air?
And, if people with allergies get to ask others to not eat the food that causes the allergic reaction, anyone flying with my sister in law, wouldn't be eating snacks on the plane.
I will ask people to refrain from eating the following then:
fruit including: apples, strawberries, raspberries, cherries, grapes, pears, kiwi, mango, grapefruit, coconut, lime
veggies including: carrots, radishes, sweet potatos, beans
no chips because she can't have the oils that the chips are baked in
no trail mix because the contain raisins (most brands)
and no sunflower seeds.....
so, Im not sure what you might eat on the plane when travelling on the same flight as her.
Oh. And please don't clean the seats with any chemical cleaning product. As she is allergic to those as well.
But. She won't ask you to not eat that stuff. She knows the world doesn't revolve around her. She knows that people need to eat. As does she. She knows that she has to be careful what she eats. What she touches. She has to wipe surfaces down. She has to carry her medication with her ALL the time. She lives. She flies. She won't inconvenience someone else just because she is inconvenienced. Her mom taught her how to live with it.