Well, it's not much of a recipe but we have always loved to have cream cheese and pickled asparagus. It's so yummy.
I use white bread with the crusts removed and spread it with softened cream cheese and roll it up around a spear of pickled asparagus. I get the asparagus in a large jar at Costco.
I hope you have a wonderful time doing the shower. What a special thing to give a Mum!