Did you get this PM too?

I can't believe how petty and cruel people can be. I feel like I re- entered high school. They have the nerve to say we are immature??????????

They have pictures off of this website and are making fun of some of the brides.

On their planning and etiquette board they are discussing anything but planning and etiquette. It is quite disgusting actually. I feel sorry for anyone who is actually looking for help and accidentally posts on the board and expects intelligent answers.

Thank God for the Dis.:grouphug:
 
I just joined these boards, but I have to say...after seeing that thread over at theknot.com, I will NOT being going over there. It was so disappointing to see grown women (not high school girls, which would be understandable and maybe even forgiven) acting out against other women for absolutely NO reason. It's just simply incredibly rude, and at least the women (and men!) over here at the DIS Disney Weddings Boards aren't disrespectful to others for no reason. I also go to thenest.com a lot for information, and I've found that absolutely no one over there is helpful because they're too busy being catty and demeaning. Cheers, all! Hope I never run into one of these women in person anywhere.

(We're too busy having fun planning our weddings to bash on others)
 
I didn't read the entire thread but a glimpse was enough.

I am a new member here and I really appreciate how amazingly friendly and helpful you all have been, don't let them get to you, they're just sad sad people. I'd love to see how they're weddings are, because Disney Weddings are actually some of the classiest affairs out there. So let them mock us (I know I am new but I think you're all awesome) they're sad.
 


I just joined these boards, but I have to say...after seeing that thread over at theknot.com, I will NOT being going over there. It was so disappointing to see grown women (not high school girls, which would be understandable and maybe even forgiven) acting out against other women for absolutely NO reason. It's just simply incredibly rude, and at least the women (and men!) over here at the DIS Disney Weddings Boards aren't disrespectful to others for no reason. I also go to thenest.com a lot for information, and I've found that absolutely no one over there is helpful because they're too busy being catty and demeaning. Cheers, all! Hope I never run into one of these women in person anywhere.

(We're too busy having fun planning our weddings to bash on others)

That behavior wouldnt even be acceptable out of any responsible person. I'm 17 and I would never act like that. What a shame people have to try to make others miserable. Thank God for the niceness here. Even when we don't agree on something.
 
Hi everyone! I want to thank Helen for taking care of our issue earlier today! I want for all of the newbies to know that we are a very supportive community. Attacks and well for lack of a better term stupidity as displayed earlier are not tolerated here. Our type of wedding may not be for everyone but it is for us! You are going to find girls on this board who have and are going through the same thing that you are. We are not only for on-site Disney weddings but have many girls who are planning a Disney themed wedding at home. I hope that you enjoy our community and stay awhile.

I would like to thank you all for staying above the fray. Since the individual in question has been escorted out...Thanks Kathy!....I went ahead and deleted her post in this thread and where you guys quoted her. She really isn't worth our time. Now back to planning your happiest celebration!

Jonette
 
awwww I'm sad, they made fun of my post in the engagement ring thread..... they said I had "fake" nails, but they are real, I swear... and the "patriotic nail art" they commented on... it was the 4th of JULY! lol it was cute :(
 


it makes me so angry....I was on the knot A LOT planning my wedding. the post hurt my feelings and i didnt even have a disney wedding! i had t say something...I am just confrontational like that. although I was not rude or mean about it I think i did well. i wasn't too mean...more of a scolding. i couldnt help myself!
 
it makes me so angry....I was on the knot A LOT planning my wedding. the post hurt my feelings and i didnt even have a disney wedding!

I feel the same way heatherlynn....I haven't posted much on this board at all, but when I have I have had no issues with ANYONE. I had a disneymoon and am hoping one day to do a VR there...I guess some people are just too dead inside to feel the feeling of walking down mainstreet the first time in a long time and seeing that castle....or the feeling of pulling up and seeing Spaceship earth....it makes me feel like i don't have ANY other cares in the world and I would give anything to have that in my everyday life! Those girls don't understand what we do, they don't understand that disney isn't just a commercial entity, it is TRUELY magical....:pixiedust:
 
OMG I am a knottie bride and told them I was getting married in Disney.. I posted a thread about 8 girls said WOW I love Disney.. You are so lucky... I cant believe how immature and rude they are.. I am never posting anything more on the knot..
 
geez - I missed all of the excitement! I was reading thru their post and got a sick feeling about sharing my trip report....I thought here I am sharing all of the details of my wonderful day and people like THAT could be reading it just to rip on me - and what bugged me was the way (like many said) they were making fun of dresses - that was just wrong. It is really too bad- I hope all of the rest of you are ok from the nasty posts! Take care -
 
I say screw them! There's a reason they are posting in the "not engaged yet" forum... who'd want them.... they're just jealous!
 
An English dictionary defines the word jealousy: Suspicious fear or watchfulness, esp the fear of being supplanted by a rival. :rotfl2:
I think they have been watching to much big brother
 
I have to say I love it here - the people are just so nice and helpful. I've heard a few things about 'that other site' that weren't very nice so never even looked at it as I've always found everything I needed right here.

I believe everyone is entitled to their opinion, but if it is cruel or disrespectful to any other person, then that opinion should remain a thought and not spoken or written.
 
OMG, I can't believe I missed all this, I leave the DIS boards for a night and all hell breaks loose. I joined The Knot last year but have never posted due to seeing some catty comments from members. I have only read a few of their comments but I felt sick to my stomach when I saw them display actual comments from these boards, how totally childish!
I love these boards and I have been helped so much by posts on here, I have managed to plan my DFTW and Disneymoon thanks to threads/suggestions on this board. Without this place I wouldn't have hired Randy Chapman or STVS, without this place I wouldn't be having a DFTW:(
You girls (and some guys) have been so helpful and welcoming and I am glad to be a part of this board. I love everyone on here and I count all of you as my friends. I mean we are sharing one of the biggest day in our lives with eachother, I honestly feel like I can tell you guys anything and I would be supported.:grouphug:
It makes me sad to think there are girls/women out there making fun of our plans, it really feels like being in high school again.
I hope that these idiots have not offended anyone too much with their behaviour.
 
i actually just emailed a complaint to the nest about all this. its one thing to expect it from immature girls from the knot...but the nest is married women! WOMEN, with pics of their children in their siggys! i feel so sorr for those kids1 they will def. need therapy when they grow up, and will prob. never get to go to disney world. :guilty: i basically said I was shocked that this behavior has been allowed to go on, and that i was excited about joining the nest after my wedding but now they wont be seeing much of me anymore. those boards ar enot very "helpful" it is lonely and pathetic girls so bored and miserable with ther lives and the only thing tha makes them feel better is making fun of others. how sad.
 
i actually just emailed a complaint to the nest about all this. its one thing to expect it from immature girls from the knot...but the nest is married women! WOMEN, with pics of their children in their siggys! i feel so sorr for those kids1 they will def. need therapy when they grow up, and will prob. never get to go to disney world. :guilty: i basically said I was shocked that this behavior has been allowed to go on, and that i was excited about joining the nest after my wedding but now they wont be seeing much of me anymore. those boards ar enot very "helpful" it is lonely and pathetic girls so bored and miserable with ther lives and the only thing tha makes them feel better is making fun of others. how sad.

I emailed the knot yesterday with a very upset tone and demanded someone contact me back... i guess we will see.:confused3
 
Wow, I'm just reading all of this now. It is just so ridiculous. I wouldn't have even thought that people exist out there that will just mock what other people envision as their dream weddings. To each his/her own... everyone has different views on everything from interests to tastes in clothing to whether one likes vanilla or chocolate cake to religious beliefs and also to what type of wedding they prefer! A certain view may not be for everyone, but that shouldn't mean you go and mock it.

I guess there's definitely an advantage to those "other" disney planning boards people sometimes refer to on her, to give people privacy in their planning. And I can see why they're really strict about letting people in.
 

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