Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2015
When my husband and I did our registry we actually wanted the items we asked for. Do people actually know how much work goes into making a registry? We spent several hours in Bed Bath and Beyond (a common place to do registries here) scanning items lol. We scoured their website too.I guess I'm just too old fashioned but I find asking for specific gifts from others to be tacky in general. A registry is fine because it's an assortment of things that shows what types of things the bride and groom like, what colors they want in their home, etc. But very specific requests for cash only or gift cards to a specific store only just turn me off.
If guests got something different that was totally ok but we didn't create a registry because we wanted X thread count sheets. We asked for specific sheets because we wanted to upgrade and liked the one we put on there (we also put a less expensive one on there too). We asked for a particular wall decor clock not because we just wanted any of them but because we wanted that one.
We didn't ask for things with thoughts of what colors we wanted in our home. We were in separate apartments anyways and then moved into a rental house just 1 1/2 months before the wedding that we had no intention of living there for a long time (it ended up being 18 months).
If all I wanted was people to see 'wall decor clock, X thread count sheets, plates, etc' and come up with their own ideas of what particular item I wanted I wouldn't have bothered doing all that work and just let guests figure it out themselves. Again we had zero issues with people getting us whatever they wanted but make no mistake we actually wanted that particular plate set in that particular color. If that makes me tacky I'm cool with that