I live in a very Roman Catholic area, we have two funeral homes in town, the irish one and the Italian one. There are three Catholic Churches in town (3 miles), Irish, Italian and polish (it’s a mix now, but when folks came over the pond, different nationalities lives in different parts of town). Death is pretty old school here.I find every funeral I go to these days is different. It really depends on the funeral home, religion, family preference, etc….. There doesn’t seem to be any hard and fast rules like I remember from years ago.