I think the trick with little ones is to go at their pace. I've travelled with a 5 month old, 11 month old and now 3, 6 and 8. Most important rules:
-Do not try and do everything, you will burn yourselves out and they can't cope with that much stimulation
-Take plenty of breaks, make them have an afternoon nap if you want any chance of seeing fireworks.
-Go for buffets as there is no waiting around, and book the character meal for the first couple of days so that they can get used to characters straight away.
-Try and carry the bare minimum, it will weigh you down and annoy you,
-no strollers are allowed in the lines or pavillions at wdw, this was a shock to me! For example, you will have to leave your stroller outside the Seas with Nemo, so potentially you are holding that baby through the nemo ride queue, the turtle talk queue, around the pavillion and tanks, it could be up to an hour and your arms will be done in. I bought a hip seat for my 11 month old and it saved my arms and back, as he was too big for a sling.
So your actual question was an itinerary
Basically mine looks like everyday:
get to park for rope drop, avoid EMH parks
get a fastpass straight away for something
get out of park by 1pm
lunch adr over dinner adr everytime, its more relaxing, less of a wait for the kids
sleep!!!!
back to parks about 6pm, snacks and counter service tea
Every other to 2nd day should be a rest day or rest morning.
Finally, remember that no matter how badly you want to shop or browse, or ride Everest, the kids won't care!
Train yourself in how parent swap works, but trust me that the kids will have low tolerance for you doing it, so put them first and only ride the thrillers that you can't bare to miss.
I know I haven't exactly answered your question but i hope i helped none the less, sorry