I guess the whole feeling that OP thinks they "have" to go out without the kids while on vacation is what I find interesting. I look at it as if I "had" to leave my child alone just to go to dinner, I wouldn't go.
Wow, that is awfully presumptious of you. Where did I ever say we HAD to go out on a date night? As I stated in a later post, which I guess you did not read, my kids have always BEGGED us for an evening at Neverland Club which we took as an opportunity to go out to dinner alone. However I was under the impression 12-year olds are too old to go, so was pondering the idea of letting DD have a little alone time in the hotel room while we went out because when I told her she was too told for Neverland Club she said she WANTS us to go out so she can have a little alone time. Seriously, what made you assume I am forcing my kid to stay alone all by her lonesome while we INSIST on going out and having a good time? I would love to know the answer.