These four are obviously 4 of the smartest people on the entire DIS. Find one more poster like this and we'd have ourselves a genious basketball team.
Ya know, when I arrived on the scene here a few years ago, I could quickly see that there was a core group of folks that called themselves Fiends and that LOVED hanging around. They answered questions of newbs like me, but they also joked, camped together on occassion, and generally made this board a place that I enjoyed coming to...every freakin day. That's a lot clicks if you are an Ad counter.
I'll admit, my very first thought when I arrived on the scene was "this group is tight". And I wasn't sure whether they'd welcome anyone new. That thought lasted all of 3 minutes...about the amount of time it took for Jim to lob a good natured snarky comment at me. I could see that there was indeed room for another Fiend. In fact, the one thing I've learned over the past few years is that there is no "membership cap" on the Fort Fiends. It's open to all who love the Fort, love the fellowship, and love a good time.
Am I saying that there has never been a case where a new poster has felt offended by something here? Of course not. In a relatively un-moderated (well, until recently) forum populated by a large and diverse group of humans, there will undoubtedly be some ruffled feathers now and then. It's human nature. But I don't think there have been any mean spirited responses by the Fiends. I can't say the same for a couple of others on this board. And I certainly cannot say the same for other areas of the DIS, which should have a warning page you have to acknowledge before entering.
I hope this doesn't get poofed, as I really want these thoughts to be considered. Some have compared the Fiends to a family...but to me a family has a closed membership. You're either in or you're out. The Fiends aren't so much a "family" or a "group", as a movement. And anyone that knows me well enough knows that I am somewhat an expert on movements.
Ohhhh-HANA!!!
This group will survive with or without this board. Personally, I like it here and hope to stick around. But if not, we'll find another way to remain tight. Heck, a group of us is getting together this weekend here in TN, and we never even discussed it on the DIS. It came together on another forum. So don't worry...the Fiends will survive. Hey hey.
I love you guys.