Disneybuckeye
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- Apr 24, 2010
IMHO it is an upbringing issue and I do not think either side is right or wrong. That being said, if you are in the not reuse name camp you are allowed to be upset if it bothers you.
I had a SIL use DS's name for her son born two years later. It greatly bothered me and her brother (my DH) and her older sister both told her it was wrong, but she did not care. It still annoys me, but it is what it is. I can tell you no one on my side of the family reuses first names for first or second cousins. A couple of us reused middle names of Grandparents.
It will be interesting if my kids ever have kids. There are 24 male first cousins on DH's side. That is 23 names since my oldest son's name was used twice (and they were #5 & #8 in birth order). There are also five male second cousins. That is a lot of names off the table. Strangely there are only 5 females in all the first and second cousins.
I had a SIL use DS's name for her son born two years later. It greatly bothered me and her brother (my DH) and her older sister both told her it was wrong, but she did not care. It still annoys me, but it is what it is. I can tell you no one on my side of the family reuses first names for first or second cousins. A couple of us reused middle names of Grandparents.
It will be interesting if my kids ever have kids. There are 24 male first cousins on DH's side. That is 23 names since my oldest son's name was used twice (and they were #5 & #8 in birth order). There are also five male second cousins. That is a lot of names off the table. Strangely there are only 5 females in all the first and second cousins.
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