but have you actually determined what the root cause of the issue is that got you to where you started?
How did you find these root causes and what have you done to combat them?
(ie: If you're an emotional eater, did you determine what triggered you and how did you combat that?)
Bonus question: Do you prefer to sit in the front or back of Big Thunder?
A lot of it is how we see ourselves, isn't it? I did think hard about my beliefs and some of them were serving me, others not so much. The worse offenders were
It will always be hard work to maintain weight
I will always have struggle
I am like my father and my aunt (both obese by 30) and I have to put a lot of effort not to be the size I am meant to be
I just love food so much
I love ice cream
Truth to be told
It's great fun to feel good about yourself
Its' not that hard at all, it's much harder to feel miserable and overweight
I am not at all like my father and my aunt in many aspects. They never moved from the town we live, I moved in completely different country. They were also both overweight by 30, and I never been overweight (at 37)
I can be perfectly happy with the healthy food I love
Ice cream was like a bad boyfriend and teenage girl. Meet up will give very short time pleasure, plus spots, craving of more sugary foods, guilt, thoughts that I really should give it up but then deciding life will just not make sense without it so may be not giving it up but having tiny bit of it as tiny bit won’t be that bad.
It was like waking up one day and realizing – you know what, I am just fine without you. There won’t be any feeling of loss, I won’t miss the spots, the feeling I need more and more, the guilt. The debates should I shouldn’t I. You don’t love me, I don’t love you back – simple. You mean nothing! I was just silly giving you so much thought.
I changed the way I view myself and I raised my standards on how I give my love. Haha - honestly!