gellar
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Feb 3, 2015
I've posted a few times prior about the special trip my kids and I will be taking with my mom and my terminally ill dad. As time progresses, his cancer is taking more and more of his normal daily functions; the latest being his ability to eat. He is now using TPN and also had surgery to insert a drain in his stomach to keep him from vomiting so often. (He was doing so at an alarming rate, even without eating and only having the TPN. No chemo or other treatments either.)
He's currently in the hospital recovering from that surgery. Our trip is just 25 days away and I worry about how he'll do. All of his doctors strongly support him going on this trip and have said their number one priority is to help him manage his symptoms well enough to go. He is adamant about taking his grand babies on their first trip to Disney World. It's all he talks about! We are running out of time to make special memories with him, and I'm a wreck trying to plan this trip. My questions today revolve around TPN. Any tips for traveling with TPN? Will our resort provide an additional fridge for his medical supplies? They'll likely take up most if not all of the space, and we'd like to have some room for drinks/snacks. Also, he won't be using his dining credits now. If he attends meals at a buffet/family style, he'll be charged regardless, right? Will we run into any issues with him not eating at other TS restaurants?
Any other advice for traveling with a fragile adult is most welcome. We are planning to take things slow. We expect for him to join us for a short amount of time in the morning at best, or relax in the resort at worst. Someone recommended a gopro camera so we can not only capture these special memories on film, but so the kids can show grandpa what they rode/saw in his absence. We have a 10 night stay booked, with 7 day park hoppers. That means we have rest days sprinkled in, and can hop dad over to any place he desires when he feels up to it. He wants an ECV, but I'm pressing for a wheelchair. He doesn't wan't us to have to push him, but I don't want him wasting energy being vigilant on the ECV. Does anyone know if it's a problem to swap for one or the other when renting from one of the ECV vendors? Maybe that way he can try the ECV, but swap it if it's too taxing? We'll be making note of the first aid stations so he can rest, if needed. I know I need to call our resort (POR) to discuss our needs, but I wanted to check in here first in case anyone has advice on something I haven't considered.
Thanks in advance for any advice you may have! I would love to hear about any similar experiences your family has. Planning this trip has been so bittersweet. I knew from the beginning it was likely this would be the last big thing we'd do with dad, but in just a few short months likely has turned into will be. I'm expecting to be on quite the emotional roller coaster this trip. Hearing your special memories will help me going in.
He's currently in the hospital recovering from that surgery. Our trip is just 25 days away and I worry about how he'll do. All of his doctors strongly support him going on this trip and have said their number one priority is to help him manage his symptoms well enough to go. He is adamant about taking his grand babies on their first trip to Disney World. It's all he talks about! We are running out of time to make special memories with him, and I'm a wreck trying to plan this trip. My questions today revolve around TPN. Any tips for traveling with TPN? Will our resort provide an additional fridge for his medical supplies? They'll likely take up most if not all of the space, and we'd like to have some room for drinks/snacks. Also, he won't be using his dining credits now. If he attends meals at a buffet/family style, he'll be charged regardless, right? Will we run into any issues with him not eating at other TS restaurants?
Any other advice for traveling with a fragile adult is most welcome. We are planning to take things slow. We expect for him to join us for a short amount of time in the morning at best, or relax in the resort at worst. Someone recommended a gopro camera so we can not only capture these special memories on film, but so the kids can show grandpa what they rode/saw in his absence. We have a 10 night stay booked, with 7 day park hoppers. That means we have rest days sprinkled in, and can hop dad over to any place he desires when he feels up to it. He wants an ECV, but I'm pressing for a wheelchair. He doesn't wan't us to have to push him, but I don't want him wasting energy being vigilant on the ECV. Does anyone know if it's a problem to swap for one or the other when renting from one of the ECV vendors? Maybe that way he can try the ECV, but swap it if it's too taxing? We'll be making note of the first aid stations so he can rest, if needed. I know I need to call our resort (POR) to discuss our needs, but I wanted to check in here first in case anyone has advice on something I haven't considered.
Thanks in advance for any advice you may have! I would love to hear about any similar experiences your family has. Planning this trip has been so bittersweet. I knew from the beginning it was likely this would be the last big thing we'd do with dad, but in just a few short months likely has turned into will be. I'm expecting to be on quite the emotional roller coaster this trip. Hearing your special memories will help me going in.