I was remembering back to the time my son broke a bone in his foot when he was little. He had fallen on carpeted stairs while playing. He initially complained of pain but shortly afterward was up and running around as usual and never said anything more about it, so I thought we were good. Until
several days later when I was trying to put his shoe on and his foot was so swollen it wouldn’t go on. Off we went to Urgent Care for an XRay where it was determined he had a broken bone.
I remember being in the room with the orthopedic surgeon and getting teary, feeling awful that I’d missed it. This guy was very reassuring, though, saying that it happens
all the time and that I shouldn’t feel bad about it. Even he acknowledged that if we took our kids to the doctor’s for every little thing that happens, we’d potentially be there every day! This, of course, is different than dealing with something like this in a professional capacity, but I just thought I’d throw it into the conversation.
The other thing I’ve been thinking about (and yes, I know it’s very different, but in my way of thinking, also similar) is how often I wound up at the veterinarian’s office with an athletic German Shepherd (who was an agility and frisbee dog). Limping and hobbling was a frequent occurrence (but he loved it and it helped use up all the excess energy he had, so we had to learn to live with it). Thankfully my vet was mostly conservative medically and didn’t rush into XRays and scans and all that right away; instead he often recommended rest. Never once did the dog break anything; always more a strain. After a while I learned to just give it rest while eliminating the middle man (and bills) unless it seemed more serious. But regardless, we certainly spent a lot of money on evaluations over his lifetime.
I always had a lot of things swirling around in my head based on the many experiences I had in both medicine and recreation, as we all do, I”m sure.
This goes off to a larger conversation but it’s also a pretty well known fact that many people can’t afford to go to see a doctor all the time, for every little thing. Likely not the case for the OP, but we also shouldn’t ignore that this can be an issue for people, as some here alluded to already. Parents make these decisions daily. I had a friend that called 911 more times than one would believe, seems the ambulance was always at their house for their child. Others don’t go when maybe they should. Most people are probably somewhere in the middle. But I don’t think there are always cut and dry answers when things aren’t always completely obvious - speaking generally. I even remember having a conversation with our pediatrician about this sort of thing and her agreeing, that as a parent herself, she was in the same boat with making determinations about whether to seek care and bill payment, etc.