it is tough and NO ONE gets it unless they've been there. It's about 100x more frustrating when you know how little it would have taken to go down a different path.
Like I said, my son has successfully gone to "regular" camp since Kindergarten and at first I was very worried knowing it was just a bunch of kids who had no special training who were the counselors... I know how truly little it takes to make a huge difference in a lot of these kids and the "play book" is not really complicated to be honest and anyone with an ounce of compassion would be glad to know what to do in certain situations. There are basic techniques that help with ALL kids but especially kids with certain issues and it sounds like the counselors could do with a little more training on it.
I'm sorry you had such a bad experience. My son's first cruise was when he was 9 so he was very able to advocate for himself, but he still did not care for the chaos of the kid's clubs... I am hoping he has a better time at the edge, all of the videos we saw of it show it much more empty and the activites sound REALLY interesting to him (he DID like the structured activities of the club like super sloppy science).
Thank you for your understanding. I know you get it.
My son has come SO far with his communication. He has speech apraxia so is still struggling with certain letter sounds and sometimes talks so fast that he is hard to understand, but he is great at advocating for himself these days. He was so limited by his speech issue as a young child that it was so hard for him to explain his needs to others. He is also not a fan of chaos and noise so it's nice to know that the teen clubs are a bit more chill. He loves video games and I think he would enjoy spending time there, but he is VERY socially immature and naive (still likes preschool level cartoon shows, for example). So, that worries me. We will likely stick to open house hours so he can go "play" in the kids club. Do they do open house for the teen clubs too?
We are planning another DCL cruise next summer, most likely. Or we might wait for the new ship the following year.