You will be golden
. The REAL dress code, for anything other than V&A, is fairly simple:
"Don't show up looking like a bum".
Now, I understand that this is pretty vague, yet crystal clear
. WDW GETS that you are on a vacation, and they actually want you to HAVE a vacation
. Many of the dress codes at finer restaurants ARE "suggestions" - there are only a few things that will trigger a red flag - and you could sort of guess them....
Nasty political, religious, offensive T shirts....
Really rotten clothing - dirty, tattered, sexually offensive (applies to BOTH sexes).
Anything else that is just going to piss people off, and ruin THEIR dinner. I admit, I can't quite come up with one of these....
Rather than trying to get really formal about all this, I think WDW has TRIED to moderate your particular tastes within an obvious group environment.... and they've done a pretty good job
. But they HAVE to enunciate some rules, just so they have the option of saying "No - we BOTH know that's just not going to fly"
. I believe this happens RARELY... but when it does? There is a pretty good reason for it....
And THANK YOU. You actually worried a bit about this. You would not have done so if you had no concern for others
. Now - just a personal opinion..... your mom did a great job, and you listened
. Folks like you are the ones we LOVE seeing at those restaurants
. Sandy and I hope you have a truly stunning trip
.